Attending your first powwow:
It might be a
good idea to use the contact information provided to confirm dates, and to make
sure that it is open to the public. Most powwows are open to the public
and include singing, drumming, ceremonial dancing and native dress, including
full ceremonial regalia (the word “costume” is often felt to trivialize these
handcrafted family heirlooms; best not to use it).
You are going to
see people engaged in elaborate and deeply traditional rituals and ceremonies,
and that can make a person anxious about making a wrong step, but don’t let
that trouble you. In general, conduct yourself as if you were in the home of
the most respected friends of your most beloved relatives. Anything you
wouldn’t do there, don’t do here. But remember, nobody is looking for you to
make a mistake. They want you to have a good time, and they want to share.
Please be especially good about stewarding your
environment. The thing that struck me most about my first powwow was this: these
folks had camped out for three days, and there wasn’t so much as a
cigarette-butt or a gum-wrapper to be seen on the ground.
At most powwows,
alcohol is forbidden, and as for recreational drugs, don’t even think about it.
At most events, tobacco may be used according to local laws and norms, along
with common sense and respect. There will be plenty of food and drink available
for purchase, and part of the reason you’re there is to try the specialties.
Don’t miss the
grand entrance – it’s one of the most moving spectacles you can hope to see. Be
ready to stand and take your hat off for the opening songs. Feel free to bring
a lawn chair, but do not place it in front of the dancers’ chairs, and never
sit in someone else’s chair. These events are patriotic in a nonpartisan way;
warrior cultures honor veterans. If you have a problem with that, you should
not attend.
These are friendly events, and people will converse with you. For what it’s worth, I’ll simply report that I was once told that it’s a bad idea to discuss your own Native American ancestry unless you have lived in a tribal environment or are an enrolled member of a tribe.
You may be invited to participate in the dancing. Particularly if the invitation comes from an elder, it is not respectful to decline. No one will ever laugh at you. Observe others and do likewise. Relax. It’s easy.
There is normally an admission fee, and you will have a chance to purchase Native American handicrafts as well as food and drink. However, this is not a carnival or fair. Dignity and respect are essential values – remember those things and you won’t go wrong. If you feel it’s an honor to be there, you’re in the right frame of mind. I recommend the following helpful guide to powwow etiquette:
http://www.powwow-power.com/powwowetiquette.html
It is traditional to donate a few dollars to the drummer at some dances. Photography is usually permitted, but you should always ask permission. In some cases, a small gratuity is expected.
Here’s a bit more guidance:
http://calstaging.bemidjistate.edu/en3160f01/ejmoore/howto.html